Tuesday, January 29, 2008

Busy, busy, busy!

Hello everyone!

Sorry I haven't been blogging in a while. Things have been so busy recently. I don't know if I can even remember what I've been doing because it's pretty much just been the normal day-to-day stuff: looking after the kids, schooling the kids, cleaning, cooking, washing clothes etc etc! Sigh! My good friend Martha is coming over to visit tomorrow with her husband, however, and she really wants to cook dinner so I won't be saying no! I think I have most things in order around the house now!

Anyway, my main reason for blogging today was for something else. On Saturday, my eldest son went to play in a dear friend Jack's house. In the afternoon Jack's mom rang me to ask if it would be ok for the two boys to go to visit Jacks cousin who lives nearby. I have never met this cousin but I trust Jacks Mom and agreed to it. To cut a long story short, my son came home that evening asking me I had ever wondered if I was gay?! Obviously I was horrified by this question so I asked him why he was wondering such things. He said that Jack's cousin's father had a discussion with all of them while they were in the house and told them that now (ie. between 10 and 14 years of age) is the time to consider whether you are straight or gay and that if you think you may be gay that you should explore it further!! What was this man thinking?!!

I have discussed the issue with my husband and we have agreed to call over to this father at the weekend to let him know how angry we feel about the situation. Jack's mom was also horrified and she will be calling over with us. We have since sat our older children down and discussed with them that being gay is not the Lords way and that as long as they follow the path that the Lord has set out for them, then they will find eternal happiness. I will let you know how the meeting at the weekend goes!

I ask Him to give me the strength to deal with problems that arise for parents!


Nunnie's Attic said...

Well, I totally understand why you would be upset. I don't believe that you have the option of choosing whether or not you're gay. And matters of this nature should be kept between you and your own children.


Nan said...

That is unbelievable. I don't blame you for being upset. What was he thinking????

Cottage Contessa said...

Oh my, what was this man thinking????? I completely understand you being upset by this! I will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers while you deal with this.
Amanda (aka Cottage Contessa)

Farmgirl Cyn said...

How did it go when you confronted this man? He has absolutely NO business talking to children like that!

HomemakerAng said...

is this a picture of your kitchen?

LauraS said...

My goodness, I meant to say that this is how I WOULD LIKE my kitchen to look, but it is not my kitchen! I have been so busy recently, I haven't had time to take photos for my blog but I didn't want to do a post without a picture. And I thought that this kitchen was so beautiful I posted it to provide some inspiration! I absolutely LOVE the wooden countertop!